Collaborative Divorce Group Of Westchester & Putnam Counties

 Allison Bell, Psy.D.

 E-Mail:
allisonbell@collabdivorce.net

 Telephone: (914)
232-1211

I received my doctorate in clinical psychology from Yeshiva University Ferkauf Graduate School of Psychology in 1986 and am specialty-trained as a child psychologist.  Previously, I was educated at Hunter College as a Dance/Movement therapist, where I received my Master's in 1978.  I worked at Pilgrim Psychiatric Center on Long Island and then at Brunswick Hospital Center from 1978 until 1981, using movement to 'wake up' institutionalized patients to their surroundings, themselves and to one another.  At Brunswick, I also worked in the Drug and Alcohol Rehabilitation Unit, helping recovering addicts find and process their body-based emotions without numbing themselves.  I have been in private practice as a clinical psychologist since 1987, but also worked at Bronx Municipal Hospital Center for three years as a child psychologist, serving in the Child Outpatient Department as clinician, as therapist in the Therapeutic Nursery Program for Communication disordered Children, as pediatric liaison to Jacobi Hospital, and as consultant to the AIDS Daycare Center at Van Etten Hospital.  I then became the school psychologist at the Solomon Schechter School of Westchester for two years, before devoting myself solely to private practice.  

Since 1993, I have also been an instructor for the internationally-taught couples' program called PAIRS, which stands for Practical Application of Intimate Relationship Skills.  I began as a student in a PAIRS course, and felt compelled to intensify my involvement in teaching couples' communication skills by becoming an instructor.  Although I no longer teach the formal course syllabus, I often bring materials from the course into work with couples.  

Over the past seven years, the focus of my practice has shifted from strictly psychotherapy and neuropsychological evaluation to becoming a forensic child custody evaluator.  To date, I have preformed approximately 175 such evaluations for the courts in Westchester, Putnam, Ulster and Kings counties in New York.  I also serve on an Interdisciplinary Forum in Westchester County Court and have taught Judges' School and lectured to the Family Law Section of the Westchester Bar Association.  

My work has been largely influenced and informed by the research of the early infant development specialists, such as Daniel Stern, Ed Tronick, Beatrice Beebe and Tiffany Fields.  Their work formed the basis of my doctoral thesis on maternal-infant interaction, and when combined with my understanding of the development and patterning of nonverbal communication in the social matrix, forms an essential aspect of the mindset form which I view couples' interactions today.  The world of forensic custody evaluation has exposed me to the destructive power of divorce and the wrenching apart of families involved in the judicial, legal process.  I have seen families ripped by litigation take a very long time to repair and heal.  I have been deeply committed to searching for a saner, more human, more compassionate way for couples to disengage from one another while preserving the integrity of the family unit.  The forum of collaborative divorce presents an exciting opportunity for me to help couples navigate a new path, negotiating a strategy that allow for a peaceful, cooperative exit from the marital contract, while honoring the delicate balance of ongoing family relationships.